The vast majority of Referees respond within a very short period of time, more often than not within a few days of receiving notification that there is an item awaiting approval. In my experience, it is unusual to to wait more than two weeks for an item to be approved. That is a clear reflection of the hard work and dedication of all of out Referees. I fully appreciate that people take holidays and may sometime not really want to put in the enormous effort that some of the more unusual items require before approval. So, my very last thought would be to harass someone who is donating their time to help manage this website, and actually, I find that statement quite offensive given the huge amount of time I myself have contributed to this website.
Let me be clear, I very much value and appreciate the work that our wonderful Referees do for us all on Numista. I've said this on many occasions and on multiple posts. Their hard work and dedication is, after all, why we have such a fantastic website that is such an incredible resource to both established collectors and beginners alike. But, there is a void of information (under the vague automatic heading ‘Pending’) when you submit an item for approval, during which time the submitter has no idea if an item is currently being reviewed by a Referee, which Referee is reviewing the item, if the Referee is awaiting additional information, or whether anyone has even seen the item that you've submitted. I don't believe for one second that our Referees are so fragile that they can't confirm, in some cases after 3 or 4 months, that they've even looked at a submission. Note, the item I submitted a couple of weeks back (as referenced above), already has a similar item in the catalogue, so should be relatively easy to confirm.
After all, occasionally people have been known to just give up:
ArsenEverlast
8 most inactive referees were freed from their duties yesterday
Just to confirm, I certainly do not believe in harassing Referees who are providing a voluntary service to fellow collectors. But, asking after a few weeks if someone has or has not received a notification, is absolutely not harassment. After all, as one of the previous contributors noted, it can sometimes be months ‘Pending’.